Whenever you do something for people, are you really willing to do that? If you really love someone very very much, I bet you will try to give what you can give and even enjoy the power of giving.
Today I read an article - the right of service on love.
When the relationship got stuck, who got the the right of service on love?
"當感情遇見膠著的瓶頸，誰會真正擁有愛情的發球權呢？"
It catched my attention to think deeply. An echo from my heart had hit me hard for a long time. These days I alomst forgot the feeling of hurt in the past relationship. Day by day I became acceptable about the current status. I tried to understand why people behaved in an unusal manner and out of my thinking. Though it was the last thing I would do, if it's my destiny, maybe to set someone free was the last thing I could do for him.
談感情，行動要積極、態度要謙卑。
緣分來時，懂得感激；緣分走了，虛心接納。
緣分來時，懂得感激；緣分走了，虛心接納。
多了幸福、少了怨恨，
情起或緣滅，都是好的際遇、善的因果，
有很多智慧，值得學習。
I agreed to the author's words -
"We should be responsible for our own emotion, and do not leave the key to others to decide what your happiness is. When the fate brings love to you, learn to be grateful. When love leaves you, learn to accept it. More happiness, less regret and hate."
You might feel that is a bit fatalistic, but I would take it as a wisdom for my lesson. In which I ever lost something, but I also got something. We should embrace the imperfection in our life.
It doesn't matter who got the right of service on love. It was my choice to end up my blind waiting and cut down my sadness, to give more space for each other. So far I won't say that love faded already. I just buried it in somewhere of my heart.
4 則留言:
Elaine：I would let the past love fade away and only keep the memory. And as the days go by and when you recover your sanity, you will find that you have done the right thing.
It is good to keep the memory somewhere in your heart. Good or bad, sweet or bitter, it becomes part of your collections in life. I feel you step out of the past pretty well so far. That's great!
June, i feel warm and moved so much as your patience and wise words never left me. Just wrote down what i thought for the current stage, and still need more efforts to prevent myself being drowned again.
wise words~ from you, that article, and your friend june~~
thanks mountainmama, your posts are very thoughtful as well. I got some good points from your latest posts. It gave me a good chance to examine my view toward life.
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