An Article Regarding Respecting Love

A few days ago my classmate gave me some precious words regarding love attitude from her follower's blog. Today I found the entire article and would like to share with you.

Here I posted some parts of my favorites.

http://christianwalktowarddestiny.blogspot.com/2009/07/respecting-love.html

To My Friends Who Are...MARRIED
Love is not about "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry", not "where are you' but "I'm right here", not "how could you" but "I understand", not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."

To My Friends Who Are...NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person." It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

To My Friends Who Are...HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.

To My Friends Who Are...NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.

To My Friends Who Are...PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say I love if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when what you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall.

To My Friends Who Are...SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly.. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it would come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is worth it. So take your time and choose the best!

I don't know what's your understanding after reading. As I read those sentences, I felt myself so tiny in the world. About love, I knew less actually.
How to manage a pleasant and lasting relationship between two closed but independent persons? Only spend time on knowing his or her needs and expectation is not enough. Add-in sharing and inspiring each other. Sometimes making surprises to refresh life is also important.
Moreover, just do what we are pleased to do without asking for his or her feedback, and never trying to change the other's nature.
Well, I think there are still a lot of lessons for me to keep learning in life.