Unsuitable Shoes?

Today We are going to talk about shoes. I got a slide from a friend which contents described the shoes as a kind of metaphor on marriage or love relationship.

First I would like to ask you the question.

"When will you feel uncomfortable in wearing shoes? new one? bigger or smaller? sand in it? or other else."

Well, then what will you do? Change another shoes? For sure the solution will depend on the cause you suffered.

Actually I'm afraid to wear a new shoes since they are always a bit tight at the beginning. But you know an old one should come from a new one. I still had to wear them a few times till getting loosen. Sometimes I wore them and felf sand in it, I would clean out the sand instead of changing another shoes.

A nice marriage or love relationship doesn't mean to live with a perfect person. We just want to meet a suitable partner. Once you found one, you should pay much efforts on the maintenance like you periodically do that on your good or favorite shoes. How often you do that, how strong it will be.

Here is another point worth mentioning. Remember that we can't force the other to wear an unsuitable shoes. Such as we had different views and customs, we should learn how to respect or accept that. Never try to change them. It would be temporary if the one was forced to do. Those unlikely pattern of behavior will go back to its original point eventually.

A good shoes can be worn for years and years. Like a suitable partner can share our life either in a good or worse condition. As my post of "Beautifully Imperfect" on July 10, I wish we all have a good partner along with and keep an wonderful love of lifetime....