Sad Ending of Their Love? or Not Yet?

Something sad happened to my close friend lately. Someone left her suddently without any reason and notification.
All the tragic story began in a SMS from her boyfriend asked her to leave him alone for a certain period. Regretfully, that guy still postponed the conversatin with her by worse excuses again and again. He ever toped the fabricated charge on her as a debt collector just due to ten or above calls to ask for a reason about his cool attitude.

I think if you really care about someone, you won't look upon those phone calls as offending your privacy. His last sms reply was like a knife and broke everything they ever had, and her last blind waiting was still without his any words. How about your thinking? Is that what we called respect to each other?

I just read an article from a website. "Woman mostly hates the man not to speak." The man is not braver than the woman on facing the problems. The man always adopts the silence while the woman adopts the tears as their strategy. Maybe time can almost heal everything, but the regret would be left in the rest life.

If we ever promised someone we should keep our words in our mind. Once you broke the matual trust with someone, you couldn't ask for the other to obey the game rule. Why lovers turn into strangers? 'Merry gathering and happy parting'. Mature people should learn how to communicate properly in an understanding way. To hold the best timing to express our real thoughts to those whom we ever loved or cared is very important. If the fate among us came to the end, we should say farewell peacefully, thank each other for ever giving you a sweet world, and bless them for another life journey. Either silence or tears can't solve any problem.

In the other way, if we always try to hide the truth, the fuzzy matter will become clearer by itself. I do believe that God will teach those immature people to learn more lessons through certain cases in proper timing. Someday we all will be more capable to bring happiness to those whom we loved.

Back to the sad story, so far, my friend is still waiting and holding a chance to hear that man's saying. Hope the 'wise man' would show up and be frankly talking to her. You might laugh at the silly woman, but I sincerely bless her waiting will be worthy.

The journey's end will be another journey's start. Let's learn together to be a more understanding and tolerant person. It's not easy but worthy to make efforts!

Taipei, 2009/7/1