Balance

In accounting bookkeeping, 'the credit balance should be always equal to the debit balance'. Well, what about our life? As you see the bright side, you might ignore the opposite side is dark. Let's make some other examples like the following.

Give and Take.

Gain and Loss.

Like and Dislike.

Arrive and Depart.

Stay and leave.

Persist and Desist.

Rights and Duties.

It seems a bit scattered on the above. Did you notice something? Those opposite words somehow reflect a certain kind of attitude, values, mindset and option.

Now, here comes the question and reality. We have to admit those things always exist concurrently but often unbalanced or uncontrollable. Especially whenever you need to make a choice or you have no choice.

I would try to coach myself to understand the difference and conflict in many aspects, such as friendship, career, family, love relationship. To stand at the others' position and listen their inner thoughts. No matter which side we stand or choose, the one at the other side always deserve our respectation and consideration. If we could plus well communication at a proper timing, everything would be more positive and move in a better way.