Understanding

Lately we had serial meetings with our boss for the upcoming working plans. I found he got changed and became soft in his attitude when we discussed. It mitigated our tension and stress effectively. I think it's the power of understanding. He could see how hard we had done in such a tightly schedule. Everyone are trying to do a better job.

It impressed me with the importance of words from the similar condition. The frozen atmosphere among people mostly due to less communication. We used to assume the other one's view point or expectation, and let the assumption be our heavy burden. It's really not a wise strategy to leave words unspoken and make decision or assumption without acquiring the other's opinion. We consider ourselves in the right, but ignore to ask or confirm the true need or instruction. We indeed have chance to shorten our guessing time on useless stuff. The same principle also can be applied in the family, friends and emotion areas.

Fortunately most of my coworkers get along well and support each other actively. They are good teachers and helpful friends to me. My personal view is if you treat one in a kind and considerable way, he can feel your sincerity and get understanding eventually. Then a good communication and relationship will happen and last long.